Dreams Sometimes Need To Be Adjusted To Fit Reality

I remember how already at the age of 14 I would lecture people that money could be earned anywhere and that our dreams were meant to come true. Luckily over the years I have learned that things happen at the appropriate time and that things work out in my favor. The dream that has accompanied me ever since then is to live a nomadic life. Reality on the other hand has shown me that sometimes dreams are meant to show us the way. Not every dream is necessarily meant to come true when you think it should. It may have been created to take you a certain way or to keep you shaping it until it is truly right for you.

But if it is meant for you and you do not give it up, it will come true at the right time.

I have adjusted my dream countless times. The dream remains the same dream, but the path to achieve it has changed over the years. When I look at the big picture I know everything has happened for the best. I would not want to embark on a journey that is inaccurate for me. The dream that has shattered again and again has helped me grow, learn and refine myself.

I will not lie, every time the dream was shattered, it broke me, but then I saw how I could adjust and grow from the fragments.

When I opened this site I had planned to fly with my dog to South America and buy a van. I had been planning this for a long time and had to wait until the end of 2019, a few months before Covid-19. Things happened that kept hindering me and when I could finally get out I had another delay in opening my savings. I decided to stop waiting in my country and meanwhile I flew to wait in India. When Covid-19 caught me in India I was not afraid of it and did not believe it would have such a big impact on our lives. I wanted to keep traveling and tried my best not to leave India despite Covid-19. I have no doubt that if I had already arrived with my dog to South America and purchased a van, I would have stayed there.

Just as I was not supposed to stay in India at a time like that, I believe I was not supposed to be stuck in South America either.

Now, after the Covid-19 craziness that has not yet fully stabilized, my dog is already 9-years-old. In my opinion it is too late to change our way of life so significantly. I have decided I would rather enjoy our time together. We have moved to a small apartment with a nice garden and in the meantime I will occasionally go on short trips. We will also go on trips in Israel and make the most of our time together.

In addition I have decided to take this time and develop myself so that when the right moment arrives to set out on a nomadic life, I will already have an internet economic base set up. Things happen for a reason and I think this is the reason. I now have the option and time to invest in myself and my business. It has taken me a while to digest the fact that my dream has been postponed again. But if it’s supposed to happen it’s going to happen, I’m not worried.

When I was 14, people would tell me that when I grew up I would understand that my dream was unrealistic.

Despite all the difficulties I have encountered and despite my dream being far away, I still wholeheartedly believe I will fulfill it. I look back on that girl who threw her truth at everyone and I fill with pride. I once thought that that girl would be mad at me for not starting the journey, but the fact that the dream is still alive inside me and that I am not going to give it up, has changed this feeling and I am sure she would be proud of me after all.

The path we take is more important than the destination. That’s why we came here, to Earth. We will always have more dreams that we want to fulfill. It’s for our development and it’s totally part of the experience, but what’s more important is the path to our dreams and not the dreams themselves. Once I realized this and stopped holding on so tightly to what I wanted, I was able to evolve thanks to it instead of getting stuck in the same place.

I believe that this life on Earth, whether it is lived with a permanent base or on the road, is still nomadic. Before we got here we were a different entity and after we leave Earth, we will go back to being this same entity again. So the way I see it is that my very life in this body is a nomadic journey of its own.

So do you still have dreams waiting for you? Because it’s never too late.