Creating your favorite reality is not a difficult task once you understand how the process works. Without this understanding you will probably have a hard time facing the challenges along the way, mainly because the challenge will be interpreted in your eyes as an obstacle. Every creation of reality from small to great goes through “the three-day process”. I learned this process from the teacher Bentinho Massaro.
Before we begin there is something important you need to know in order to understand this process.
The reality in which we live consists of frequencies. Everything has a frequency, colors, sounds, smells and also our feelings and thoughts. Our body is built as a frequency interpreter. We experience a physical reality with the help of our brain that creates a reality around us by using its abilities to interpret those frequencies and make them more tangible for us.
You can read about it in detail here.
So what exactly is “the three-day process”?
The three days are basically a symbol that represents three stages. So as the length of the process varies, the three days can be days/weeks/months, depending on the desired change and your willingness to commit to that change. The process is built from the day of receiving the idea, the day of the challenge and the day of successful change.
The first day – the day of receiving the idea
Something new is awakening in you, a vision for a new reality. You have gained a new understanding of who you are and about what is right for you. You have a new desire for your life, a change you want to create in your tangible reality. On this day you create a new idea and an intention arises in you to work towards this vision. You start to get excited and a new frequency starts to form.
The second day – Challenge Day
Challenge Day is like caution control of your higher self, this stage is there to confirm that you are definitely sure that you are interested in change. In fact your higher self/universe will examine your responses to its questions. It will usually come in the form of doubts and concerns both in your thoughts and from the outside world. Those around you will begin to challenge you and ask you if you are sure. They will bring up all your doubts and concerns and may even express a will against it and try to appeal and persuade you to give up your decision.
In fact this test is positive and effective, it is here to help you.
The old reality you are in and the new reality that you want cannot coexist together. The beliefs and doubts that will float around you will no longer be able to exist. To make the change you need to clear these doubts. These doubts contain a certain frequency that cannot exist in reality with the new frequency you wish for yourself.
After making an energetic shift on the first day, the universe just wants to make sure on the second day that you’re still sure it’s what you want now. Most people say no, they are not sure that is what they want. The doubts that arise in them undermine them and they do not see that it is part of the game. They are sucked into negative and narrowing thoughts and bury their desires. They repress their fun ideas within themselves because external circumstances and their internal thoughts have told them they cannot do what they want.
How do you clear the doubts and overcome the challenges?
First of all you need to recognize that you are in the challenge stage. Once the doubts and fears come to the surface (which the circumstances highlight as a reflection of your higher self) you have 2 options: The first is to continue to hold on to the doubts and stay in the same place. The second is to realize that these thoughts no longer serve you and move on. You need to understand, any doubt that comes to your mind is just a thought that you keep thinking. Once you consciously see that this thought no longer serves you and choose to stop believing in it, it will simply fade.
You need to clear your doubts and keep thinking towards your desires until your frequency is balanced. In order to reach that balance, you need to stay at the desired frequency without expectations. You must have complete faith in your new desires, no matter what appears in the outside world. If you truly believe that you are worthy and that this is what you want, the third day will come swiftly.
The third day – the day of successful change
At this point your dreams manifest in your reality. After you have made the necessary changes within yourself and managed to hold on to the desired frequency during the challenge period, reality reflects your vision back at you.
This reality operates like magic. The option for change is infinite. Once you understand the process and learn with its help, evolving and making the necessary changes within you, you will be able to continue to change reality as much as you want. The secret is that tangible reality is merely a reflection of our inner world and the frequency with which we vibrate.